![]() Some of us feel most loved when our partner fixes our computer, I’m one of those, or makes us dinner. It means some of us really want that visual representation of love. That just doesn’t mean we’re materialistic. ![]() Many of us really want to spend one on one time with our partner without the distraction of screens, tablets, cell phones, and televisions. Most of us love to be told a compliment, that we’re cute, or that we’re funny. What are the five ways human beings most like to be loved? How do they like to feel it, touch it and taste it? What I recommend is you follow Gary Chapman’s book, The Five Love Languages and figure out your partner’s favorite love languages, and your favorite love languages, and then intentionally start doing more of those. But after that initial period of oneness starts to wear off, I think we have to be more intentional about it, and come up with specific strategies to keep it feeling to keep us feeling connected to our partner. That food for the relationship I think happens naturally in those beginning stages. So then what? That’s when you have to really start feeding that relationship. And studies show that that feeling of feeling really connected, feeling really at one, lasts an average of about two years. ![]() The 5 Love Languages for Gay Men What do you do when that feeling of being in love starts to wear off?
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